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Thursday, September 24, 2015

Midnight Thought


"Being busy used to make me feel important. It made me feel like the world needed me, like somehow I was more valuable or valid when I was busy."

Yet,


Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, and many more successful people. Why successful people achieve many things in a day but why most of us lament about not having enough time to even take 30 minutes off for having a coffee break with people you love or simply saying 'hi, how was you day?'
The next time you say you're busy, (in my point of view) it's an excuse. If you truly prioritize something, you will make time for it. Relationships, friendships, or something else — you always have time for anything if you make time. There is nothing called busy. Its all about prioritizing. If it is important, we will acknowledge it, fight hard for it and won't let things go that easily... Make sense? :)
However, to me, there comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't even jump puddles for you. If for you, someone is priority and you are only an option, then they are not worth your time. Why on Earth should you go above and beyond if the other person doesn’t even do the same for you?
No need to force yourself to have space in people's life because if they know your worth, they'll create one for you. People make time for whom they want to make time for. People text, call, and reply to people they want to talk to. I personally never believe anyone who says they are too busy. If they want to be around you, they would. Simple as that.

22 comments:

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  7. it totally hit me.
    i've always been complaining for not having enough time to do this and that.
    while in fact, it's my fault for not being effective and mostly lazy.

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  12. This is a beautiful post! I always feel that, that there's not enough time. But yeah, if those influential people manage it, then I have nothing to complain about :)

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